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mike jones 09/28/2007 5:55:00 AM
Hey Louis ? read the whole story. you did miss something. some kid got arrested for a hate crime. Was he the one that was calling her names and got arrested for that? Or something else. It just says hate crime, which could be anything these days.You cant even talk against somebodies lifestyle unless like you say he is christian or in my case blond straight and white. Then it is o.k. Nobody stated what the crime was though. hate crime crime is very broad a word today. What was his name etc... No And was he convicted?Or his name.lets just settle on this. This story is very poorly written.too loosely written. too many holes in it.can be taken in alot of ways.proof still aint there.this whole story does not go too deep in facts at all. oh well that is talk internet .guess it doesnt have to.
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Louis Montoya 09/28/2007 5:28:00 AM
I dont care to hear about this one sided junk.This kind of tolerance sucks. The no judging kind.(insanity).The no discriminating kind (everthing is all right) kind. Homosexuality tolerance in other words.Discrimination is choice. Everybody does it. ALL the time. Most of you responders are being taken for fool's.I been to public school's and college's and everybody knows it is a haven for christian hate (intolerance) (liberalism)(unless it is a christian school out right) and then when a christian school trys to operate on its OWN grounds it then gets targeted for slander from its MAIN outsider opponents. Just cant win or get away from these pushy people no matter what.I never see proff, and even if they do have it, how do we know it wasn't staged for this reason (to post and get positive attention for gays, and make their opposers look bad)(they have been known to do that).o.k so the kid in wyoming was really killed by two hicks,(cause he couldnt keep his hands to himself is the reason I read)(once again, PUSHY) but so have many christians.where is/are all the tears and sympathy over that. I have done my homework. How about you guys? I just skimmed the letter and didnt go far after I saw no suspect or proff and that is when I stopped and decided to write instead. Another reason for no proff, is one can slam the WHOLE school not just one or two criminals. Why get ONLY 1 or 2 people when you can get a whole school? Heck maybe be able to slam more than that. Again I didnt read all the propoganda too far because I saw the intentions of the letter right away and the amount of proof and dont take it as authentic at all. I dont need their sorry ---- lies. Anybody can make up anything at anytime for any reason.Only a bunch of gullable idiots would take it as fact.What does a lesbian have to loose by writing this kind of letter? Nothing. reputation? I cant say there is any left. Thank god.What does she have to gain? Acceptance and tolerance of her actions.what is she gonna get ? ask tolerance. Bunch of different kinds so make sure to ask the right one.(first homework assignment).Not on a mission from god but on a mission from???.guess ? (next homework assignment)
Students, please dont bite on every lure you run into without checking out its credentials and tendencies a little further.Consider the source. Dont let the BAD TOLERANCE JUST BLINDLY LEAD YOU. They might not all be true. Dont they teach you any of that in that school? I say you if you can be gay you can lie about anything, with a straight face (or letter). Sorry but they do lie with straight faces . That is NOT intolerance, that is the TRUTH.
To the complainer who if it aint some game would of never attended this type of school. Stories just dont match up.Go to a school that will love you for what you are (or more like. DO) (majority in America) and out right hate (in the open) what you complain about in this letter. So go find a non-christian They are EVERYWHERE(common girl, how naive are you ? or are is it you are trying to make the good guys look bad).Or how naive do you want us to be.Or is blind non judging tolerant a more appropriate word to use) . You got your pick. Go somewhere else ( where irt is cheaper too( for a reason)if you dont like it where you are at.
If I went into a gay bar and was treated wrong should I complain?.And to who if I wanted to. No tolerance for anti gay people.Who do I cry to?
Problem with some christians is they are too tolerant and that is where they get beat. Gays on the other hand are not tolerant of christianity.They wouldnt be gay if they were.They are just beggers of tolerance FROM everybody else.But wouldnt give anything FOR free to nobody outside of their lifestyle.(attention tolerance sympathy REAL love etc) Manipulators. Read your bibles kids. It is all there. In plain and simple language.As plain and simple as it gets.
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mark thompson 09/28/2007 4:04:00 AM
did you take pictures so we know it is your car and so on?
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Joanna 04/15/2007 10:59:00 PM
As a third year RA, Senior and recently confirmed and baptized Catholic at
Regis University, I would like to applaud Alana�s courage. Regis is a
prestigious university and they do have a reputation to uphold, but more
than a petty reputation, the people that comprise the overly friendly
environment here at Regis are obligated to maintain integrity and uphold
the Catholic traditions of human dignity (the rest should follow). And,
just like any other university- to maintain the safety of their students-
gay, straight, black, white, Hispanic, Catholic, Jewish or otherwise. This
issue is not about money, nor potential loss of prominent donors or a
precious reputation. This issue is about a student, a human being - an
amazing, compassionate, talented, loving human being who deserves to
maintain her dignity, as a woman, as a lesbian and as a student at Regis.
Furthermore, any student who attempts to escape the gay community by
attending a Catholic school is completely ignorant. Four years of
�protection� behind the pearly gates of a Catholic university does not
prepare you for the diversity you are destined to discover in this �real
world� we keep hearing about. So I say, man up. Embrace diversity, and if
you are still too ignorant to embrace it you should, at the very least,
tolerate it. They tolerate you and your dirty looks, and your snickering
faces, and your hammers, and your markers, and your comical misspellings.
Their tolerance for your ignorance shows strength that you could only pray
for. Alana, thank you for your courage, and your willingness to put
yourself out there for the sake of us all and for letting us love a
sinner.
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Joanna 04/15/2007 10:59:00 PM
As a third year RA, Senior and recently confirmed and baptized Catholic at
Regis University, I would like to applaud Alana�s courage. Regis is a
prestigious university and they do have a reputation to uphold, but more
than a petty reputation, the people that comprise the overly friendly
environment here at Regis are obligated to maintain integrity and uphold
the Catholic traditions of human dignity (the rest should follow). And,
just like any other university- to maintain the safety of their students-
gay, straight, black, white, Hispanic, Catholic, Jewish or otherwise. This
issue is not about money, nor potential loss of prominent donors or a
precious reputation. This issue is about a student, a human being - an
amazing, compassionate, talented, loving human being who deserves to
maintain her dignity, as a woman, as a lesbian and as a student at Regis.
Furthermore, any student who attempts to escape the gay community by
attending a Catholic school is completely ignorant. Four years of
�protection� behind the pearly gates of a Catholic university does not
prepare you for the diversity you are destined to discover in this �real
world� we keep hearing about. So I say, man up. Embrace diversity, and if
you are still too ignorant to embrace it you should, at the very least,
tolerate it. They tolerate you and your dirty looks, and your snickering
faces, and your hammers, and your markers, and your comical misspellings.
Their tolerance for your ignorance shows strength that you could only pray
for. Alana, thank you for your courage, and your willingness to put
yourself out there for the sake of us all and for letting us love a
sinner.
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Jonny Feiten 04/06/2007 9:53:00 PM
To Alana:
I would absolutely love to have a dialogue about the issues which were discussed in this article, as well as in this blog. I hope you don't feel as though I was slamming you in my previous comments, and if you do feel that way, I appologize. As you may know, I do feel strongly about the regis community, and the ways in which it is portrayed. If you have the time, I would love to be able to sit and talk with you about ways in which we can prevent things like this from happening again. If you would like any help setting up that public dialogue, or would like to talk about these issues one on one... feel free to send me an email! Thank you very much and have a good weekend!
jonnyfeiten@yahoo.com
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Alana 03/30/2007 2:00:00 AM
I guess it was only a matter of time before I got slammed in this blog. I'm not one to use pseudonyms as you may have noticed in the multipaged article in the Westword where I used my name and photo. While I understand that many will be angry and critical of my decision to go public with these incidents, I felt it was both my right and responsibility to speak out about my experience. I have great pride in Regis as a former student and current employee there. I do hope that the University will take disciplinary action against students who act out with hatred. Although Zach Dong was involved in an earlier, less serious incident, he has made his own retribution....we even had a mediation together where we were able to speak about our perspectives and feelings. Although our mediation did not leave us becoming best pals, I was appreciative to hear that Zach's motivations and intentions were not malicious, as I had innitailly percieved them to be. I am hoping that the University will see that there is a need for dialogue and discernment for the many people who have been affected in these issues; and by the looks of this comment page, there are many with strong opinions and angry reactions. Anger is not empowering to anyone and we need to work towards understanding and respect. I will be contacting Sandra Mitchell to try to start an open dialogue where students and the community can voice their oppinions and concerns. Please contact her if you areinterseted in participating, a blog is no place to work things out. Face to face interaction will keep peole from slandering each other and assuming that I am Anna- she is a friend who has taken more offense than I have to the comments made here. On her behalf, I apologize for her harsh words and uninformed accusations. She does not speak for me but feels defensive for me as friends tend to be.
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Rosie 03/29/2007 11:28:00 PM
Hey anna aka Alana
This worked for me sweetie. If you answer yes to any of the following, you may need to learn/acquire better anger management skills:
� Do you generally tend to escalate conflict rather than deescalate it?
� Do you frequently raise your voice at others?
� Do you have numerous conflicts with students, faculty, friends, family, co-workers, or significant others?
� Are others frightened of you or your anger?
� Do you make threats or act violently?
� Do you make impulsive decisions to retaliate or hurt others?
� Do you often feel like straight people are out to get you?
The L.A. Gay & Lesbian Center�s anger management counseling helps people learn how to manage their anger in a healthy manner and become better able to interrupt the unhealthy escalation of anger, prevent violence and allow the appropriate and safe expression of many emotions.
Good luck my dear.
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Jennifer 03/29/2007 9:44:00 PM
To Anna aka. Alana
You are obviously an angry person with a chip on your shoulder. I find it curious that the school and environment that you claim to have oppressed you is the very place you have chosen for your employment. You should take your anger and direct in a more positive manner.
Although there are many omissions in the article, you failed to mention that you were in fact disciplined for your "coming out" board for breaking a rule as an RA and employee of the school. Your job as a RA was to promote harmony among the residents of the hall not post one-sided views that any reasonable man would conclude to be divisive and cause the firestorm that you in fact caused. So, I�m sure you achieved your goal of creating anger and controversy. You are making it much harder for the respectable gay people who wish to live with us as opposed to against us.
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concerned Student 03/29/2007 8:55:00 PM
To Anna aka. Alana
You are obviously an angry person with a chip on your shoulder. I find it curious that the school and environment that you claim to have oppressed you is the very place you have chosen for your employment. You should take your anger and direct in a more positive manner.
Although there are many omissions in the article, you failed to mention that you were in fact disciplined for your "coming out" board for breaking a rule as an RA and employee of the school. Your job as a RA was to promote harmony among the residents of the hall not post one-sided views that any reasonable man would conclude to be divisive and cause the firestorm that you in fact caused. So, I�m sure you achieved your goal of creating anger and controversy. You are making it much harder for the respectable gay people who wish to live with us as opposed to against us.
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concerned Student 03/29/2007 8:54:00 PM
to anna aka. Alana
You are obviously an angry person with a chip on your shoulder. I find it curious that the school and environment that you claim to have oppressed you is the very place you have chosen for your employment. You should take your anger and direct in a more positive manner.
Although there are many omissions in the article, you failed to mention that you were in fact disciplined for your "coming out" board for breaking a rule as an RA and employee of the school. Your job as a RA was to promote harmony among the residents of the hall not post one-sided views that any reasonable man would conclude to be divisive and cause the firestorm that you in fact caused. So, I�m sure you achieved your goal of creating anger and controversy. You are making it much harder for the respectable gay people who wish to live with us as opposed to against us.
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anna 03/29/2007 5:38:00 AM
Katrina, This is twice that you have claimed that there is more to the story and you seem to believe that the homophobes were somehow misrepresented. The bottom line is that Alex has confessed to the Denver Police department that he committed a hate crime. Also Zach wrote a threatening letter because he thought a board displaying coming out stories of GLBT people was too vulgar for college students to see. If you really believe that Zach and Alex were in the right for doing these things then you are a COMPLETE IDIOT! If you defend homophobia, it is probably because you are a homophobe. If you have information that would somehow rectify the hateful and intolerant acts of these boys them let them be heard. If you simply think that it is ok for Catholics to shit on other people as long as they put the bible behind it then you are a misinformed Catholic and you will probably end up assisting Zach and Alex in degrading the Church, Alana, Gays, Lesbians, Bisexuals, and Transgender people for the rest of your life. In short; go fuck yourself.
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Katrina 03/29/2007 3:07:00 AM
"I am outraged that no disiplinary action has been taken against these boys! I urge students who do not want their school to be placed in negative light to contact the president of Regis demading repercussions for these boys."
Disagree, students do NOT know the full extent of this case. For the administration to have dropped charges on Zach in the first place proves something that this article does not inform the public of. Enough said, this article only gives one extremely biased side. It would be foolish for any student (mind you, students are supposed to be objective and critical thinkers when pursuing higher education) to base their opinions on this issue solely off this article.
Katrina
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lisa 03/28/2007 9:28:00 PM
I am outraged that no disiplinary action has been taken against these boys! I believe that the fact that no action has been taken is a reflection of the school in general. Tolerating a hate crime is no different than committing one! Upon graduating, students are representatives of the university they graduated from. This means that the boys who committed these hate crimes are representatives of Regis University. I urge students who do not want their school to be placed in negative light to contact the president of Regis demading repercussions for these boys.
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Jared 03/28/2007 6:14:00 PM
Find a lengthy analysis of the article by a Regis faculty member at:
http://www.westword.com/blogs/?p=759
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Jonny 03/28/2007 5:31:00 AM
To Anna:
Thank you so much for your feedback. I have to admit that ever since I wrote my first comment, I have been checking westword.com almost daily to see if anyone had responded to it. I'm glad to see that someone finally did.
Having said that, I have a few things, which I would like to say in response to your direct attack towards my initial comment...
You caught me... I AM VERY DEFENSIVE AS TO HOW MY UNIVERSITY IS PORTRAYED!!! What you fail to recognize Anna, is that the reputation of Regis University is reflected back on to the students, faculty members, administration, and other employees who are a part of the community. When I graduate, I want to be proud of the fact that I had the opportunity to attend Regis University. When I tell someone where I went to college, that person is likely to make a judgment based on what they have heard or read about the school. I want people to look at my peers and me in a positive regard. Another thing that you fail to realize is that Gay students are vulnerable at ANY University. There have been dozens of events, similar to this one, which have occurred at schools all across the country. Another point, which I would like to make clear, is that you are wrong in saying that I was attempting to defend the "homophobes" of Regis. I thought that I did a good job of attempting to stand up for the Regis community, while being "sympathetic" to the feelings of Ms. McCoy.
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Jonny cont'd 03/28/2007 5:12:00 AM
One thing that I do agree with you on is that the University should hold these men accountable for their actions. You ended your statement by saying that the community is doing NOTHING for Ms. McCoy. I think you made the mistake of confusing our "community" with our "administration." If you read the article, you would see that the University is having a hearing to discuss the fate of Alex Robinson at some point this week. Once I hear what the punishment for their discriminatory actions is, I will then be able to make my own decision as to whether or not I think it was just. While the administration has not yet punished these men, I'm sure that they will decide their fate in the very near future. As for what the "community" has done... well that's something that I think you know NOTHING about!
Anna if you, or anyone else for that matter, would like to speak with me about this issue, and the comments which I have posted, feel free to shoot me an email at jonnyfeiten@ yahoo.com. I am very interested in this issue and would love to hear what other people have to say!
p.s. Sorry for all the comments! This one was so long they made me do 2.
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Jonny 03/28/2007 5:10:00 AM
To Anna:
Thank you so much for your feedback. I have to admit that ever since I wrote my first comment, I have been checking westword.com almost daily to see if anyone had responded to it. I'm glad to see that someone finally did.
Having said that, I have a few things, which I would like to say in response to your direct attack towards my initial comment...
You caught me... I AM VERY DEFENSIVE AS TO HOW MY UNIVERSITY IS PORTRAYED!!! What you fail to recognize Anna, is that the reputation of Regis University is reflected back on to the students, faculty members, administration, and other employees who are a part of the community. When I graduate, I want to be proud of the fact that I had the opportunity to attend Regis University. When I tell someone where I went to college, that person is likely to make a judgment based on what they have heard or read about the school. I want people to look at my peers and me in a positive regard. Another thing that you fail to realize is that Gay students are vulnerable at ANY University. There have been dozens of events, similar to this one, which have occurred at schools all across the country. Another point, which I would like to make clear, is that you are wrong in saying that I was attempting to defend the "homophobes" of Regis. I thought that I did a good job of attempting to stand up for the Regis community, while being "sympathetic" to the feelings of Ms. McCoy. I also never mentioned that the article "tried" to tarnish our community. The tarnishing, in my opinion was inadvertently displayed, and I am just doing my best to help people understand what Regis is all about.
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anna 03/27/2007 4:22:00 AM
I find it interesting that Regis students seem to be defensive about the way the University is portrayed. If I was a student at a UNiversity where multiple act of hate were commited against any student, and nothing was done by the Administration, I would be outraged. Doesn't Catholic Social teaching call Catholics to protect and defend the vulnerable and marginalized. It is clear that Gay students at Regis are vulnerable and marginalized and yet people who have posted comments here feel that they need to defend the university and the homophobes who commited these acts. A person with social conscience would stand in solidarity with Mccoy and demand that the Administration take action against Zach and Alex.
To Jonny from above, you say that you are saddend and embarrassed by what Zach and Alex did but you feel that the article tries to tarnish the noble Regis community. If you were concerned with Regis' reputation, you would speak out against these acts and demand that the Administration hold Zach and Alex accountable for their dispicable actions. If you don't want to have your University depicted as a bunch of hate filled lunatics, then demand those who are hate filled lunatics (Zach and Alex) be expelled from school. You seem to be so concerned with how your community "looks", just think of how Ms. Mccoy must "feel" in the "noble" community which has done NOTHING to protect and respect her human dignity.
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knight 03/23/2007 7:23:00 PM
To Katrina: the caption makes sense when you see it in the print version, because the photos are coupled together.
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Katrina 03/22/2007 1:09:00 PM
"Although Zachary Dong (left) and Alex Robinson weren't on campus when Alana McCoy's car was vandalized, they did admit to ripping down her display of coming-out stories."
This is the subtitle under Ms. McCoy's photo of her vandalized car. (the picture of the windows being smashed) Since the young men were not involved in this particular situation, why was is even mentioned? Let alone a picture? Also, to refer to Archbishop Chaput as solely an "American critic" completely disregards and downplays his role within the Catholic Church. Poor writing in my opinion and I am certain there is more to this story.
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Jonny Feiten 03/22/2007 4:05:00 AM
Last spring, I graduated from Regis Jesuit High School, and am now attending Regis University. The main thing which I don't think was stressed enough in this article is the concept of the "Jesuit" mission. After five years of learning under Jesuit principles, I have become an advocate for the concept of being a man for others and living in service for the common good. One thing that many people fail to realize is the vast differences between a Catholic, and a Jesuit institution. In my experience, it seems that Catholic institutions emphasize the importance of strict Christian doctrine, whereas the Jesuit institutions focus on the foundation of Christian Principles through love and service. When reading this article to two fellow Regis Jesuit High School graduates, who also attend Regis University, I wasn't surprised to hear that they felt as though the article was accusing Regis University students of being hate-filled lunatics. I admit that I initially felt the same way. However, the thing that disappointed me above all was the poor reputation of the Regis community, which the article indirectly expressed. I believe that Regis University and Regis Jesuit High School have the two strongest communities among all Colorado institutions. I am sympathetically saddened and embarrassed by the actions that the Regis University students took against Ms. McCoy. However, I also feel that it is necessary for people to understand all the great things, which this Jesuit institution stands for. I refuse to let the actions of a few disrespectful students tarnish the reputation of the community, which I am a part of.