I’m out ragged at the two comments that Sara Martinez and Norma Wilson have made about Brittney Brashers’ death. First you two women obviously have NEVER been in an abusive relationship because if you had you would know that the cycle of abuse is not black and white, there are many grey areas and when you are inside the cycle you cannot just simply pull away. As simple as it sounds it’s not cut and dry, the poor girl had probably tried and she probably was bullied in to staying by him, when you’re afraid for your life you will do anything to keep yourself safe. As far as saying she volunteered to be beaten and killed you have to be a sick person to believe that ANY PERSON who is abused and killed as a result is a volunteer of that kind of crap. Now as far as your respect for the dead goes as far as I’m concerned you two women have none. That poor girl was doing the best she could to keep herself and her job safe. I do agree that man is scum what he did is completely dishonorable and I’m so glad that he is not the defending our country any more, Brittany was a victim of circumstance and his wife probably was dealing with the same abuse and mother in her right mind would or could ever believe that her son is capable of doing something so heinous and disgraceful, I think you two women need to get your facts straight before you go judging the dead and abused women! I hope karma comes back to that man in the worst way possible, he is scum on earth and doesn’t deserve to be alive after what he did and the way he tried to cover up his sick and twisted crime.
"That poor girl was doing the best she could to keep herself and her job safe."
No, she wasn't. A simple order from her chain of command was disregarded multiple times: No Contact. Posing for pornography also shows a blatant disregard for her job. Such behavior can bring disciplinary action. She deliberately chose to drag him along knowing it would upset him. She was a sick and twisted tease that antagonized the situation.