Stop lying to your kids! You are so hooked on all the false negatives you are essentially destroying the truth to instill fear into them. Keep doing that and you might as well prepare to hold the door open for them in a few years! Hope you don't drink ANY alcohol. ALCOHOL IS A DRUG THAT STATISTICS CONTINUALLY LIE ABOUT! If you believe in the Gateway Drug Theory, then first we need to remind people of this FACT FIRST! Guess what, I'd put $$$ on the fact that more people used alcohol FIRST, even before weed. So just because it is legal, does not make it less dangerous.
Maybe some of those "stoners", as you called them, look horrible because they hjave cancer...they have glaucoma...Crohn's disease...Alzheimer's...epilepsy..
And maybe they'd have a nicer car if they could get a decent job...but not while companies turn them away for having THC in their system...not high on the job, just using it responsibly...just like chilling with a few beers. What u do on ur weekend should not matter when u go to work Monday morning! It is NONE of ANYONES business.