The parents of mass murderers often refrain from speaking publicly about their homicidal children for long periods of time.
Note that Sue Klebold, son of Columbine killer Dylan Klebold, waited for nearly seventeen years after the 1999 attack to sit for TV conversations in conjunction with a book, A Mother's Reckoning, whose proceeds were earmarked for mental-health charities.
Arlene Holmes, mother of Aurora theater shooter James Holmes, takes a similar approach in her first television interview.
She chose a lower-key venue than did Sue Klebold, whose inaugural chat was with Diane Sawyer on ABC, speaking with 10News in San Diego. However, she timed the conversation to Mental Health Awareness Month and concentrates on the victims of the July 20, 2012 attack at the Aurora Century 16 theater, where twelve people died and seventy were injured, as well as mental-health-related issues.
"I talked to other people about signs and symptoms of people who have problems with mental health and they told me it's been helpful, so I want to share the lessons that I've learned," she says. "At the same time, I want to acknowledge that my son did indeed do something very terrible, and it was a great tragedy. Many people were killed, many people were harmed, and I want to focus not on him, but on education."
Arlene adds that the victims are "on my mind every day. It's the first thought when I wake up in the morning. I'm very cognizant of how bad this all was, and I'm praying for their healing; mentally, physically, emotionally," Arlene said. "I can't erase the day, but I wish I could. The way that I want to honor their injuries and their distress is to try and help prevent something this bad from happening again."
Through elementary school, James was a happy kid who frequently invited other kids to play at the family home, Arlene reveals. But following a move from northern California to San Diego when he was in the twelve-to-thirteen range, he gradually became quieter and moodier.
When he moved to Colorado in order to study neuroscience, Arlene continues, she knew that he was seeing a counselor but had no idea about the violent thoughts he harbored — and only during the trial did she learn that he'd been diagnosed as a schizophrenic.
The entire ordeal has clearly taken a tremendous toll on Arlene — one that's far different from the struggles experienced by survivors and the loved ones of those who died at the theater, but undeniably profound nevertheless. The conclusion of 10News journalists Kimberly Hunt and Stacy Haynes: "This is a broken woman."
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